oh,please!

You can break down to ask for sympathy
or you can try harder to achieve something.

You can't expect everyone to offer you help without you even trying.
It's hard to do it yourself, of course.But what were you thinking?
Life is never a bed of roses and you've got to give your everything.
Help yourself, not asking for people to help you, all the time!

Well people starts to see your true colours and start disliking you is not the issue here.
The issue here is, how long can you expect people to spoon feed you? like hell your colleagues will offer you their    help when they can't even finish their own job or your employer will let loose you just because you're weak and that you need more help. This is reality,and reality is cruel. you got to buck up and stand on your own feet rather than leaning on others 24/7.

Well I've had enough said and I hope you get it. Being weak and show that you need sympathy most of the time is just bullcrap and it makes people sick. People might care about you for the first time,but they sure as hell won't fall for it the next time.